Recipe for a Perfect Valentine’s Day

Updated: Feb 13, 2020

“Valentine’s Day is coming!” my daughter exclaimed surrounded by pink and red hearts at the store.

“Yup.” I replied, swiftly pushing my cart past the displays.

Valentine’s Day has long been a holiday that caused in inner battle for me. On one hand I spout that it’s a silly Hallmark holiday and we should show people we love them every day. Of course, while I’m saying this I secret long for sweet declarations of everlasting love, preferably with a heart shaped box of chocolates and flowers.

And therein lies the problem. I hate it and love it all at once, so maintaining my expectations is precarious to say the least. Especially for my husband.

None of this is ideal for a day all about love.

Instead of letting the war rage I’ve decided to be honest, embrace the best of it and let the rest go. Here’s how.

First, I’m reminding myself where love comes from. When I remember that God is love and Valentine’s Day is about love, it takes the pressure off creating some magical greeting card holiday, and shifts the focus to love those around me well.

To do that I’ve divided things into two main two categories because, well, there’s love with kids and there’s love with the hubby. Ready to get started?

Kid and Family Ideas

Valentines – The most important part of Valentines is to know what you’re dealing with. Know the rules, get the class list, know if your kid needs a special box or if a grocery bag will do. Knowing what is required ahead of time saves you from a massive headache later.

Next is to get them early and work on a few each day instead of a tear-filled cram session the night before. This makes a big difference, especially for the little ones.

Finally, remember you are not trying to outdo anyone else. Do what works for you and move on. No one really remembers who gives the valentine with the best sticker.

Simple Kid Craft – I’m not talking Pinterest here. Well, okay, you can find it on Pinterest, but it needs to be simple. An hour or less start to finish. No crying, no wishing you had never started, and preferably no glitter.

Here are a few ideas to keep the sanity and spread the love:

Heart Butterfly Craft

Fruit Loop Heart Bird Feeder

Heart Shaped Ninja Turtle

Super Easy Heart Wreath

Teddy Bear Graham Cookies Holding Conversation Hearts

Snuggles – Use this time to remember what is important. Be together, and my favorite way to do that is with extra snuggle time and books.

Serve Someone – Thinking about others is a great way to show the love outside your family. Work together and color pictures or grab some pre-made cookie dough and bake. It’s always a good time to remember people who are important to you like school staff, police, fire and ems workers, library staff, and homeless shelters. You can even bring some dog treats to the animal shelter. The poin